FIB--as a nurse, and as a discarded spouse, I have a real sense of what you're feeling. And wow--your wife is such a fool for throwing her family, and YOU, under the train of her narcissism. You are truly a good person, and you truly "get it." So rare.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
..and Jeff...and hoosiermama...THAT..is where I pray....where we fall into the 40% that DO make it after D.
That we 'get it'...
that we learned.....
that we have filled our minds with a thousand yellow Post-It notes...permanent reminders to avoid those insidious changes that, perhaps, maybe, helped propel us into this quagmire.
But then again....
HNY
FIB
PS...yes Jeff.....here's a to a new beginning. Out with the old, in with the new. (cork popping)
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
