Ready2Change (8) - Child Family Investigator

[BBrown]

R2C,

Thanks for your encouragement with my situation. After reading through your situation I am amazed that you can help others such as myself out. Your advice so far has really helped me stay focused on what is important. One of the things I've learned from reading your sitch is that I need to better clearly define my goals.

Hang in there man. You are a great man, and I know your W will see that and come around.

[Ready2Change]

BBrown,

Thanks for stopping in. Always glad to help.

[Ready2Change]

Update:

I completed the CFI 12 pages of questions. Lots of questions ranging from what did you find attractive about your spouse to what issues are you currently dealing with......

I am glad that is over. Lots of emotions while reviewing the past and evaluating the present......

[Gypsy]

*hugs*

[Gypsy]

And just a few more...

*hugshugshugs*

[Ready2Change]

Why do I always expect W to be nice? I guess cause everyone else I interact with is nice. O well. Her problems. We had a parade tonight that the kids were involved in. I walked along with the boys and W was with D6. She didn't know I was there till the end. She kept saying say goodbye to daddy. D6 did not want to let go of me. I walked them all back to car. W was walking way fast for kids to keep up. I walked at kid speed.

Anyway just venting.......

[Gypsy]

Hey Watusi..

*hugs*

[Gypsy]

Why do I always expect W to be nice?

A wise guy I know always says... No expectations, no intentions.

I guess cause everyone else I interact with is nice.

Who can resist that smile?

O well. Her problems.

They are her problems. She's not a happy camper and you're not behaving the way she had the script written out in her mind.

She hurts but you can't fix her.

We had a parade tonight that the kids were involved in. I walked along with the boys and W was with D6. She didn't know I was there till the end. She kept saying say goodbye to daddy. D6 did not want to let go of me. I walked them all back to car. W was walking way fast for kids to keep up. I walked at kid speed.

Walking faster than the kids could keep up... or running away from you?

Anyway just venting.......

*hugs*

[Ready2Change]

Hi Gypsy,

The four agreements as your tagline. I like it!

Night

[BBrown]

Ready, when my W gets angry with me I just think to myself. Angry is better than numb. Though angry isn't the reaction we want from our Ws, at least it shows that we still affect them in some way. Keep up the good work bro. Your awsome!