Yes MIshka! Can you believe snow on the coast!! I dont think we saw a single flurry last year!! SOrry if I seem excited to you that get snow ALLL the time! I know it gets old to some of ya! But I like to see it once in a while.
Our skies here are just that good old carolina blue now! It has stopped snowing. May be the only flakes we see....but maybe this is a sign for a cold SNOWY winter???
And Im good so far as my H is concerned. He is so lost in the forrest right now, that I try not to concern myself with it. I know he still has hope though that we can work things out, but it wont happen until atleast he is over the OW for good....so Im just enjoying being alone for now....
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Anyway, just wanted to update you all a little. I dont spend as much time on here anymore and I like that. I dont hurt anymore when I wake up in the mornings. I like my life....
I know exactly what you mean !
Never thought we'd get to this point...but we have ! I'm proud of you !
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Anyway, just wanted to update you all a little. I dont spend as much time on here anymore and I like that. I dont hurt anymore when I wake up in the mornings. I like my life....
I know exactly what you mean !
Never thought we'd get to this point...but we have ! I'm proud of you !
Thank you Cinders...it is a nice place to be isnt it?! Its much more peaceful. Hope you are doing well.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
OH, you have no idea how often I have said "I know exactly how you feel" to him.
But Im good, thanks.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Ha! Good line there Kissak....I know exactly how you feel. That's priceless! Does he put 2 and 2 together on what you're referring to when you say that?
Well FG, sometimes I think he puts 2 and 2 together, and sometimes he doesnt have a clue! Every now and then I have to remind him that is how he treated me or that is how I felt when he did whatever.
Oh, please say a pray for me today. Down in the dumps a little over my financial situation. I wish the gov would bail me out!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Funny how the OW seem to "know" so much huh?...My H's OW said she always knew he would come back to me...so why did she create the HELL with him in the first place???...and sleep with him???
That is the craziness of this all...and what we have to all get past...let it go...
You are sounding so much better...good for you...you definitely deserve happiness and the best kind is that we find in ourself...so one can take that from us...we own it!
Hey Kissak.. I have followed your sitch, but I had to post I am amazed that he is confiding in YOU about his grief!!!! Thats priceless. And yes, maybe divine retribution that the ow dumped him and is about to be happily M.. too wierd, you are right, you couldnt make this stuff up!
Great to hear you sounding grounded and happy though, I feel better nowadays too, it only took 15 months, LOL!
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
