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Neil, your Dad knows what he's talking about.
Good Morning Friends. It's going to be an even busier week than before. I'm behind at work (but boss is quite gracious right now) and mostly I'm working on being brave as I learn about how the law works in my sitch.
Nothing about this is pleasant. When the word abuse comes up, people scatter like little ants. There are a few crime-fighting Superheros out there that aren't afraid, I hope I find them this week, so S15 can start healing. He's doing really great so far with the Family Counselor, and he will need some IC for a while, too.
S18 has been brainwashed. Despite my best efforts to encourage him to talk to a priest or a counselor, he has decided to take sides and he has picked his Dad. I get it, but it still makes me sad. I miss my son. We grew up together. I'm not saying it's right, but he was my friend as well as my kid, and now he's unwilling to speak to me. And my job as a mother is to let him go and let him begin his life. Whatever he chooses.
Oh cr@p, more purple puddles.
This too shall pass, and Neil, you're right. Panic kills.
Time to suit up for the day, and go fight the bad guys. Or at least try to get some work done.
BTW, this tattoo hurts, but is healing nicely. Worth every penny. I think I'll get another one when I celebrate the D. Peace.


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{{{{{goldey}}}}}

I am sorry I have not been around much, but never doubt that you are in my thoughts and your prayers. You and the kids are in an unenviable position. I know how hard you warred with the decision you are making and while I would delight in God working a miracle in your H, i also know tha you have to do everything necessary to protct you and your children.

Keep your chin up and stay strong. God is watching over you. When you feel overwhelmed, pray Psalm 91. It has gotten me through many a tough time.

SMW


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Just some more hugs for you, sweetie. You are loved.

((((((((((((((Goldey))))))))))))))


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
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((SMW)) I know you've been busy. I've been thinking of you, as well. I spent some time reading the book of Job. It helped put things in perspective.
((GF)) Hugs back at 'ya, girlfriend!
It's beeen a crazy day at work...but good crazy. This kind of crazy I know how to deal with! (she said, rolling her eyes...)
Peace out.


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I spent some time reading the book of Job.


It's about time......


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Ian, only problem is...I realized I did not see Job in Hus' behaviors.


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Originally Posted By: goldeylox
Ian, only problem is...I realized I did not see Job in Hus' behaviors.


It's not about him Goldey....


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Hang in there Goldey...One day at a time. \:\)

Alive and Kicking
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfNef6E5Jno


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Great old skool video!!


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6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
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7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

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Originally Posted By: sofaraway
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I spent some time reading the book of Job.


It's about time......


Ian


LOL..ROTFLMAO..

Ian..I love ya brother..

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