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R2C,

Wow buddy. This sounds nuts! Good luck with everything ok. My prayers are with you Pal. Youve been good to so many on here including me. I know that God sees this. He'll help you get through man. Keep being yourself. Ive posted some depressing stuff on S2's, Edgies as well as my thread. Had a minor chat with the w this afternoon. Im getting My 180s, GALing and Acting as ifs going big time. At least trying to.

Take care of you man, We are here for you.

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Hi all,

Thanks for checking on me. Been busy with kids.

I met with the CFI, filled out her forms and she explained the process. She appears very nice. I don't believe I have anything to worry about....just continue what I have been doing.....

Keep the prayers coming!

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Hi ((Ready))

I'm so glad to hear it went smoothly.

Just keep in the back of your mind, her total focus is doing what she perceives is best for your kids.

From everything I've read .....what is best for your kids is spending lots of quality time with YOU !!!

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Hi Scookie,

Thanks for stopping in!

I understand her focus. I am glad her perception is not reality.

We had parent teacher conferences tonight. We did them together. I was able to DB. I showed interest in her running in SF this weekend by wishing her luck. Tried some small talk, but she did not engage. I complimented her coaching ability to one of the other parents that came up to talk.

I am off to the GYM!!! My back feels healed finally....


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WOW! Can't believe how good it felt to be able to ride the bike again! Can't wait to get outside and ride.....


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Hey Ready...sounds like things ae going well. You know they say exersice is the best medicine. Aparently it increases the good brain chemicals better than any anti depressant. Glad I found it as well. Enjoy the changing of the leaves on your ride.


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Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
WOW! Can't believe how good it felt to be able to ride the bike again! Can't wait to get outside and ride.....


WOOT !!!!

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How was your day ? Anything new & fun ?

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Hey Ready..

That "not intentions, no expectations" thought is something I've finding to be very helpful.

Thanks for sharing.

*hugs*

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Been missing you friend. Hope all is going well.


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