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That is just too much of a tease!

After interacting with others while dancing, I'll bet she thought you looked pretty good in comparision. Sometimes they get bored and don't realize how good it is at home until they either are about to loose it or they get to see close up what the alternatives are like.

I hope the night turned out well for you.


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It was a great night. The thing is, she's the LD half, so she probably didn't have to do that to get my attention. But I think doing it excited her, and that made her night better, too.

But it's taken us a couple of years to get to the point where she'll do things like that.

Monday we were both doing boring chores--I was at home doing plumbing work and laundry, she was out running a kid to errands and grocery shopping-- and I took a moment when that red dress and panties passed through my hands. I took a photo of them in my hand and sent it to her with the message "Thinking of you."

Later in the day, we snuggled on the couch and I fed her sweets (she didn't feed me sweets, but she did find an excuse to suck a little sugar off my fingertip, and just typing that gave me another little tingle.) That night we had good sex again. I can't prove it started with that photo, but it couldn't have hurt.

I also set her phone's alarm to go off daily at 8:30 p.m. and display "Sex with (SillyOldBear)" as the event. What do you think? Too subtle?


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Originally Posted By: SillyOldBear
It was a great night. The thing is, she's the LD half, so she probably didn't have to do that to get my attention. But I think doing it excited her, and that made her night better, too.

But it's taken us a couple of years to get to the point where she'll do things like that.

.... What do you think? Too subtle?


Not very subtle, but it seems to be working for you and your wife, so.....

While "a copule of years to get t the point.." can seem like a long time, it is pretty impressive at how hard she is trying. Sounds like you and your wife are on the way to recovery!

Congratulations! I hope that you and your wife continue to find happiness together.


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Is porn a normal thing for guys?

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No Silly! I'd love it if my hubby did that!! awesome!

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She's into you.

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I think knowing that she has the freedom to go out and dance(something I love, hubby hates...) helps!

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Hmmmmmmm thanks Silly, maybe I can get H revved up as the OM already is?

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Give us your ideas!! Desperate to sex up the husband, and forget the OM...

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Men are all different, but pornography is pretty normal, yes.

That doesn't mean your husband likes it, though, and even if he does, if he's ashamed of liking it then his reaction to it will be hard to predict.


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