After interacting with others while dancing, I'll bet she thought you looked pretty good in comparision. Sometimes they get bored and don't realize how good it is at home until they either are about to loose it or they get to see close up what the alternatives are like.
I hope the night turned out well for you.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
It was a great night. The thing is, she's the LD half, so she probably didn't have to do that to get my attention. But I think doing it excited her, and that made her night better, too.
But it's taken us a couple of years to get to the point where she'll do things like that.
Monday we were both doing boring chores--I was at home doing plumbing work and laundry, she was out running a kid to errands and grocery shopping-- and I took a moment when that red dress and panties passed through my hands. I took a photo of them in my hand and sent it to her with the message "Thinking of you."
Later in the day, we snuggled on the couch and I fed her sweets (she didn't feed me sweets, but she did find an excuse to suck a little sugar off my fingertip, and just typing that gave me another little tingle.) That night we had good sex again. I can't prove it started with that photo, but it couldn't have hurt.
I also set her phone's alarm to go off daily at 8:30 p.m. and display "Sex with (SillyOldBear)" as the event. What do you think? Too subtle?