Hugs! You are SO on the right track. If you put your kids' needs first - all will fall into place. For instance, I have been in a Post D relationship for 4.5 years. But we don't live together. I vowed never to move a man in until my D was grown and (hopefully) out of the house. D is now 20, probably in her last year at home and I have stuck to my word. And proud of it. And I KNOW it has been better for her.
So - do you have those Kudus running around your yard? LOL!
It all takes time. Time to heal. Time to learn what we want for ourselves. The thing is - once we get divorced, a new world opens for us.
My kids are turning out fairly normal. Not perfect - but better than most.
