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It's good to hear from you K! You're doing very well!

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Thanks FG,

What's with the new name? Someone been eve's dropping?

I have to say, minus the stress of my online course, I feel pretty good.

I think the stress of the divorce being done and over with has really helped.

I know where I stand. I did not die. I feel a big since of relief.

I also don't feel responsible anymore for the way he feels.


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No, no one's spying. Just being cautious. I don't think anyone knows about it here but I didn't see the rules about not using your real name when I first signed up here. \:\)

I'm glad you've been feeling better. You can hear it in your posts too.

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Yesterday I came home to a blackout in my house.

I thought it was the whole neighborhood until I saw my neighbor across the street shut her garage with the automatic opener.

At that moment it dawned on me that JA had something to do with it.

So I call up the gas/electric company only to be put on hold for 10 minutes and once again get disconneted. At this point I was at the bus stop waiting for S7 to get off the bus.

JA pulls up 10 minutes early. I said to him "Your early."

He shrugs his shoulders.

I told him I had no electric or gas in the house and asked him if he knew why.

He played innocent and said he didn't.

So I called up the gas/electric company again only to be put on hold for another 20 minutes. They told me JA had canceled the service on September 1st and they just now shut it off.

They said they could not come back until today to put it back on.

So I had to pack up the boys things, my things and some perishables and take them over to my brother's house where we had to spend the night.

After I got off the phone with the gas/electric company I was furious.

I called up JA and let him have it.

I cursed him out and I don't give a damn.

I said thanks to him that his boys and I had to find somewhere else to go for the night. I also told him that they raised the budget plan on me too.

He said that I had all week to switch it to my name but I never did.

I told him that is because each chance I got, they put me on hold for 10 minutes and I got tired of waiting. I would of paid the bill no matter whose name it was in. He did not tell me that if I did not get it put into my name the services would shut off.

I was so furious and then I hung up on him.

I was supposed to be in class last night but I had to miss it because I had to deal with this bs instead.

JA texts me "I did the best I could with switching over the services and you yelled at me. But at least you said the boys were mine, so thank you."

I did not respond back to him. He isn't worth it.

He is a child.

I called my L about it but he said there was nothing I could do about it as JA had the right to take his name off the accounts.

He never has to be accountable for anything.

He also brought the boys home 15 minutes late.

He called me later that night but I did not have service at my brother's house so I did not get my VM until this morning.

I could not make out a thing he said. I think he was trying to explain his side again. Then he said to have the boys call him.

I don't really care what he said.

He is no longer important.

Blah, I need a big fat glass of red wine!


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K, he's a f'ing jerk! Really. Just know you do the best you can and he'll soon receive his carma as well!

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I'm sorry. That was rude of me. He just makes me soooo mad!

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Dar, he is what he is.

No need to apologize.


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Oh yeah, I forgot to mention....

Today would of been our 9th wedding anniversary.


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Oooooh, well THAT explains it then! I wouldn't doubt if he did this because of that then. Just to give it to you one last time, you know? Grrrrr!

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Who knows why he does what he does.

Ever since the divorce he has been being nice to me. However, he has been a shmuck to me for over 2 years so I don't believe his sincerity. (sp?)

I'm just done with him.

I love him, but I am not in love with him.


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