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Hi Scookie! Thanks for checking on me! Haven't heard from Dance lady. I believe it is my responsibility as a man to call her. We shall see......

I just got of the phone with a friend. It was good talking with her. Time to sleep. The kids are with me. S7 just came out. It is 1:17.

Good night


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Best moment of day: S7 and I just got done eating cookies and milk. S7 kept pushing my hand into the milk and laughing.....


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Hey Ready..

Your son sounds adorable.. how cute! Carry a little notebook around to jot down those little stories. It's a gift you give to yourself and your kids. Uhh.. and no.. I haven't been carrying mine around so I'll rectify it today.

You've gone from Devil Bunny to Super Rabbit! A hero.

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I am slowly getting ME back! I can't believe how much I let W affect my self esteem.....

"What you give out comes back to you" is an amazingly powerful technique. Just remember, that the person you give to may not be the person that gives back.....

Do you want people to be more interested in YOU?? Get more interested in them!



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Gypsy, I'd watch it with the rabbit names. LOL On another thread they're suggesting a "rabbit" for um... "tension". lol

Ready, You're so right about getting interested in people.

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Hey Ready Rabbit!

"What you give out comes back to you"

This board is a prime example. Some people may add to your thread. But if you show compassion and caring to others in your posts on their thread, some will come to yours and add their insight.

I have to tell you, Ready.. you seem like a really good YOU. It sounds like you have solid ground beneath your feet.. not bog walking for you!

My hero!

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Thanks Gypsy!

I am building my "Base" or "Foundation" for a better R with W. Building better relationships with others where there is no wall is much easier.....


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I saw my W two times today.

Kids had to be two places at once, so I was picking S7 up from school [he is now seeing therapist (Good cause he can work on W and I too...). Insurance covers all cost]. W was there talking to another mom. I walked right over and siad "Hi ladies". I didn't feel the tension. Talked to W a little,she gave me some eye contact. I then "left first" and went and talked to another dad.

Soccer started today. Rain canceled the practice. W lost her keys. Asked me for ride. (I was prepared for this day). I happily said "sure of course!" Started clearing off front passanger seat. W found keys. She gave a sincere thanks!.

WAHOO! Rope dropped. DBing away.


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Wow, Ready..

You ARE Mr. DB.. and what confidence too!

How does your level of acceptance of the divorce proceedings and separate households effect how you view your marriage?

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Originally Posted By: Gypsy
Wow, Ready..

You ARE Mr. DB.. and what confidence too!

How does your level of acceptance of the divorce proceedings and separate households effect how you view your marriage?

*hugs*


Patience and Forgiveness with no expectations are my middle name....


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