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Mmmmmmmmmmmmm. Beer. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

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awww you guys. Thank you all for the post today. They made me laugh and Bethie yours made me cry but in a good way. And I am honored to have Miss Julie stop by since her apperances are rare, so thank you sweet Julie. You all are the best.sheesh now I am getting mushy. blech


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Its ok to be mushy around people we care about ;0

The hard part about triggers is that we never know what it is that may set us off. Progress is how often and for how long they affect us....bet you've noticed that they are much fewer and far between, and not as deep, yes...?

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You are so right about the triggers, Donna. We just never know when one is going to fire!

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true Donna very true. I am alot better now than 10/06. I am stronger than I think \:\)


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I think we have all proven that of ourselves! Sometimes I look back and say, Wow, was that ME? Did I really want to jump off the planet?

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That's a great thing that we have found ourselves stronger. After all, that's part of moving forward. Not always easy but I believe we are the better for it on that level.

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Blech

Shoe, I just read this, and I think that would bother me too, the same exacty name. ICK

Weird.


Of course you are much stronger since OCT of 06. You are doing the work.

He is still off running from things.

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Originally Posted By: shoeprincess
I just found out that the OW's legal first name is the same as mine.


OMG, your real name is "Slut?" I don't blame you for being upset. If I were you, I'd get it changed right away. What were your parents thinking???

Seriously, Shoe, don't give it any brain space. Like Fig said, someday you'll feel sorry that OW got stuck with your X. I know it doesn't seem that way now, but it will happen.

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i wanted to send poor baby crackho some money and a one way bus ticket away formt hat mess

but

then I remembered

she slept with my husband

so i let it pass


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