nlt, I think it is interesting that the song came to you at that time...
I cannot tell you how much I hope my sitch does not go towards D but sometimes they do. I know I cannot stop my H from doing what he is gonna do...that is hard but there it is.
None of this is easy. We just have to get through as best we can and learn from it and make ourselves better people.
Keep praying...that is what I am doing!
Hugs, Vali
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Remember I'm D'd & as people have said on here, it's just a piece of paper. My D happened so quickly so that is why I keep thinking that maybe just maybe he will come to his senses.
nlt, I suppose it is just a piece of paper...especially when you want to stand for your marriage. Yours did happen very qiuckly...I am not sure what I would have done.
I hope he does come to his senses...you have no contact, right?
I have always had contact...there has never been a 'dark' period in my sitch...only a dim period. There is so much darkness in his life and it does not seem to work well in our sitch.
Still praying as well!!!
Hugs, V
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
Hi Vali.....hes not wearing his ring?????? that hurt soooo bad when BV stopped wearing his. I remember it like it was yesterday. He told me even tho he took it off, he always had it in his pocket.....he had said it during MLC too and I didt believe him at the time.
any more news on the preggy chick?
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Yep, my D happened so quick! I didn't have time to deal with it but that is the way he wanted it. He thought if he did it quickly that I wouldn't find out about OW. He knew he was wrong & felt the guilt & I'm sure that is why he rushed. Plus I think the OW was rushing him also. She had redone his resume on Sept. 4th, he didn't tell me he wanted a D until Sept. 6th. They had not seen each other that I know of since June of that year.
No, I have no contact with H at all, except when he sends me the alimony checks but he never writes anything. This is what has been so hard, no contact! I hope that will hurry up the end of the R with OW. He is getting a chance to know the real person & I just have a feeling he won't like her or she won't like him.
