OMG Mike, you are too funny. Glad to hear the wedding went so well, and that you didn't let the STBX get you down. Sounds like house is coming along nicely. Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
You know, just getten 'er done. The painting, quarter rounding, Kilnzing (don't even know what that is!), hanging (cabinets and doors), wainscoating, rewiring... all that stuff. =)
Have a happy day and good luck at the dentist.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
Mike - Was just thinking in your recent posts the way you've been. Good for you and all that, but am I correct in that you've actually quit saving it now ?
The reason I ask is, that there is as if, then there is Mike As if...lol. Like laughing at your W's attacks and comments and no longer listening and validating. Are you now happier away from here and just looking forward to the future alone ?
How much will you get to see your D BTW ? when you split
Good for you and all that, but am I correct in that you've actually quit saving it now ?
Yes, I called done about 1-2 weeks ago. I'm done. There will be no reconciliation.
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Are you now happier away from here and just looking forward to the future alone ?
I'll never be alone. I have my daughter, my son and my family. There is a lady out there for me Arthur. They all don't have WAW mentality..there are plenty on this site that prove that.
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Like laughing at your W's attacks and comments and no longer listening and validating.
You're right. I know longer validate or listen to attacks on my character, attacks about my credibility as a father.
I am doing my own thing Arthur. I'm living there in the house now, there is really no communication at all unless it involves my D. I leave at 4:45 Am to come to work, I get off work and go work on the house or do something else untill about 7:00pm, I drive home, get there by 7:45pm. spend time with D until 9-9:30, then up to bed.
Yes, Arthur I'm getting a Divorce.
I am not stopping it. I am not holding it up, I am not encouraging it.
It is what it is.
and she's finding it damn hard to do it all herself. I hate it for her but it's what she wants.
I'll have my D-112 days every year. I'll get to see her every other weekend from Weds.evening at 6:00pm until Sunday evening at 6:00pm..
Mike, I am sorry you are where you are but I am glad you are dealing with it the way you are. And yes, there is definitely a lady out there waiting for you, a lucky lady... K
You sound definate, but what if she crumbled now ? Do you still do the Divorce ? or haven't you thought of that ?
She has attempted to impune my credibility.
If she crumbles she will crumble in upon herself. She is a trainwreck. She is a mess.
Yes, I still do Divorce.
I've thought of everything and don't think I have missed anything at all
Arthur there are a few on here who are pretty much done I think. Some have ben here longer than others. Some did not stick around long at all..Ping is an example..
When you have given it your all and feel you've done all you could then I don't feel you can continue to look back but must move forward or risk getting stuck.
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 07/28/0801:34 PM.
