Last thread locked. here's another. I had two different thread titles thought up. This one from the old "Life" cereal commercial and one from the Guns N Roses song-"I Used To Love Her But I Had To Kill Her". I thought I better go with the first one and not alarm you all by choosing the second.
Distressed, thanks for the comments on my thread and Girl thanks to you also..Girl I am 44 years old. My son is 24. I started early right out of high school..I'm getting old..
Here are the thread titles in all their splendor and glory.
and a midday update. Well, caught the wrath this morning. Seems my STBX is a little miffed. Probably because she won't be attending the wedding tonight. She decides to inform me I can no longer eat the food here, can't come and go as I please. Laid down bunches of rules. Since I'm paying the mortgage it all fell on deaf ears. She has lots of nerve. Oh well, what ya gonna do? Seems she has decided that D is hard. She has decided it may just be difficult on her after the D is final. I knew she would attempt to ruin my son's wedding day. That's why she's not welcome...she attempted it anyway by ruining my day, well it did not work. If she ruined anything at all it ruined her day, because due to her actions I stayed here all day. She had no space.
So eat another prozac honey and lay up in your laziness and depression with your dogs while they pisss all over your dream home and claw the front door down.
There is now no chance at reconciliation ever. I would not entertain the thoughts of her coming back for any reason. I'm done. I want a divorce ASAP. I feel nothing for her but contempt. She is an idiot. I can't believe I ever got involved with her. I can't believe I chose to love her. I can't believe I made that mistake.
I've got a wedding to go to. Lots of fun. A NEW TUX TRIGGER FOR ME TONIGHT.
I'll post later tonight. I'll have pictures over in the Netherworld.
I'm still good. I want allow chitttforbrains to get me down any more.
She's on the coaster again. I'm outside the fence waving at her sorry assss as she passes..I'm taking pictures of her too!!
Seems like this wedding may have been a trigger for STBX too. Since she tends to act like an assss she won't get to she her D as a flower girl for the first time. I bet STBX hates F'in triggers.
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 07/26/0807:06 PM.
I hope the wedding goes really well today. Sorry that your wife isn't being the nicest, sounds like you are doing a great job in not letting it get to you.
I love the GnR song, but you are right, we would have all hit panic mode, especially after the way your STBX has been acting lately.
Yes, the STBX is riding the BIG coaster right now. Now that she bought the bed (probably on ebay) she does not want to lie in it. I guess she is finding out that Reality Bites, huh?
Enjoy the wedding and your D's premiere as a princess. I will be looking for the pictures.
SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
well the wedding went off without a hitch. I now have a new DIL and from the looks of things a very happy son. I hope they can make it. I guess they have a 50% chance if stats hold true.
SMW-I figured if I picked the second thread title I would have been brought up on charges..LOL..When I left STBX seemed very down. I 'm sure she was disappointed that she did not get to see D..D did great by the way. It's amazing what happens when you hand a 2 yr. old a basket with fake flowers and have skittles in your pocket They seem to pep right up and do whatever you ask them to do D had a really good time. The reception was great, I got to dance with my D and she told me on the way home, "I danced with my daddy and it was fun."
I love my daughter with all my heart. My son too. I so hope my son can make this work. The wedding was emotional for me. While they were saying their vows I flashed back to when his mother and I got married. I could remember her saying her vows. My DIL was absolutely beautiful...I hope they will be forever happy.
STBX was in bed when we got home..Thank the lord...D went fast to sleep..
The plan for tomorrow, work on the house. All day long. Try to make more headway. My BIL worked there today..Hopefully the bathroom will be done soon and I can start to move in.
I'll post what pictures I have on my camera over in the alternate universe..My sis has some really goos ones but must send them to me.
(((Mike))) love the GnR song, but that one is probably not the best one to pull a thread title from. How 'bout "Its So Easy", Why don't you just?....
I'm so glad the wedding was good and that DS and new DIL are happy. Weddings are not something I'm ready to be a part of these days. I'll have to go and check out your pics.
You sound really good and really strong. Lying in the bed you've made really sux when reality hits.
Take it easy.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
We've been going through this together bruv and it seems things happen at the same time to us re the W's. Mine has gone proper weird and reverted from what agreed during the 'chat' Thursday to the evil beeeittchhh she has been for 6 months.
Worked on the house today. Got a lot done. Got all the quarter round down except for the last bedroom. BIL came over and we hung a brand new door in the bathroom. Hung a medicine cabinet, put up all the baseboard and trim on the wainscoating. Put a new light over the medicine cabinet. Rewired the light switch in the bathroom so it would work both medicine cabinet light and over head light. (I have become a shade tree electrician) I may have missed my calling. Kilnzed the back door and front door and applied fresh paint to each. Painted a TV stand for D. Worked on a door in the master bedroom that was hanging when we attempted to shut it. Put the vanity in and hooked up the water, installed the faucet for the shower.
D's room is now done and furnished. Pictures have been added in the alternate universe.
Got in late and spent a little time with D. She has gone to bed now. No interaction with STBX.
Work tomorrow, dental appointment after work, will return tuxedo's and then run over to the house to work a couple of hours..
They seem to pep right up and do whatever you ask them to do 
D had a really good time. The reception was great, I got to dance with my D and she told me on the way home, "I danced with my daddy and it was fun."