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[Ready2Change]

I went for a hike tonight (First time in weeks). It felt good.

I called the kids. Talked a bit. S7 got mad at D6, they start fighting/crying. Someone hangs up phone. I call back. Talk to S7. He explaining why he is mad at D6. W interupts, ask me what I said, I say "don't know". W says "I'm sure" hangs up.

Great. She is pissed. I send her two emails. One about her inappropriate behavior with the phone. Second about S7's anger issue.

Thanks for all support out here. Without the DB and guidance, I am sure I would have jumped off the higher road....

[Ready2Change]

Today was moving day. It went smooth. I will have all the rest of the things out of the house tomorrow.

W is still controlling the kids DVD's, kids Clothing and kids books. Very strange, but I will let the L decide if she wants it to be lopsided....

Good night all!

[Ready2Change]

I'm out!

Kids spend their first night in our new place. They liked it and were very excited.

So far so good.

[Ready2Change]

W and I are discussing (through email) school supplies. Here is her last response:

I'm so glad that you're finally taking an interest. I will go through what we already have as most can be reused.

She has made several similar statements recently. She is still trying to control...

I talked to a mutual friend today that says W is still "stuck"...and that I am "moving forward"....

[Ready2Change]

I am now separated. I completely moved out in 2 days. I should have internet at the new house within the next few days.

ForestG is right: DO WORK.

[addie]

R2C,
Things may settle down a bit now that you and W are living apart.
Keep strong!

[Ready2Change]

Good day today.

Do Work (big items):
1) I ran the electrical for hot tub. Filled tub with water. Sat in it tonight. Felt great! Set temp low so that kids can go in tomorrow.
2) Internet connected to wireless gateway. PC now connected. What a nightmare.

W dropped kids off at 10AM. This starts my 5 day stretch with them. We had a good day. We went shopping, we attended a free jazz concert. We bought and then played the board game "Sorry". Perfect for 6-9 year olds....

I cooked a spaghetti and meatball dinner. I forgot to buy a can opener so I had to use the old fashion type and punch holes in the sauce can...

Made cookies tonight. They were good....

[Gypsy]

Hey Ready..

Life with you is an adventure. I can just imagine the fun you had opening the can with the kids watching. That's sure to become a tale told over and over again.

How does it feel to have some breathing room?

*hugs*

[Ready2Change]

Hey Gypsy,

Thanks for stopping in, always appreciate your words....

I haven't had any breathing room yet, but I see it coming this week....

Today is my parenting time. W and S9 are going out to do some one-on-one for about 6 hours. This will give the kids some space from each other. Kids are with each other 24/7.

[sofaraway]

Hey Gypsy,

Thanks for stopping in, always appreciate your words....

I haven't had any breathing room yet, but I see it coming this week....

Today is my parenting time. W and S9 are going out to do some one-on-one for about 6 hours. This will give the kids some space from each other. Kids are with each other 24/7.

Hey R2C, just checking in and saying hey.

Great that you are getting individual time with the kids dude. That is very important for them, and for you.

Hang in there buddy.


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