You are not a selfish b.t.h. for doing what you are doing and I don't consider your actions as quitting.
You aren't the one who has quit here, remember that, Maria. Your H has quit on you, your children and himself. You have withstood all that you could bear and are now moving forward w/out regret.
Keep your head up high. You have nothing to be ashamed of. You loved and now it is time to move forward and maybe someday love again.
It is ok, my dear. I'm sorry for your pain, but in time things will become easier. Time will heal the wounds of us all.
You are definitely NOT a selfish b.t.c.h for completely detaching from him. He did this, not you. You have to separate yourself emotionally from him now. His fault, not yours at this point.
What right did he have to yell at you about HIS freakin' car? Notice....HIS car...not yours. HIS responsibility, not yours. HIS freakin' problem, NOT yours!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
