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Just a quick update. Things continue on a positive plane. Much better communication, more including more communication from her first. No more one word answers...

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Doa,

Now is the time you WANT to rush in.

Keep reminding yourself to be slow and steady...methodical.

Fight against the "I want it all and I want it NOW!" culture we have been raised with.

Nuture and grow this.

And no expectations...just in case things go pear shaped.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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Thanks for the continuing great advice. I'm really fighting a growing impatience, but i know I can do it.

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Well if you can't fight it, you're going to find out why I'm suggesting not rushing in.



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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

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:-) I can do it.

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Had another really good weekend. Lots of family time, holding hands, cuddling in the mornings. Starting to think about spending some more time in piecing, just don't want to curse my recent luck...

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Stay where you feel comfortable.

PS - I understand the fear of jinxing it.

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 06/16/08 08:03 PM.


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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

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5 days until W visits... I can't wait. I'm managing to stay cool.

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Keep doing what you have proven works.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

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Tomorrow's the big day. W visiting for weekend without kids...

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