M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Funny last night in the car I was singing and I started on "Did I shave my legs for this" which used to be one of my favourites because I thought it was a perfect fit. Then I thought, Hmm maybe our spouses aren't the only ones who rewrite history because I keep thinking everything was great until bam this happened in Dec. If so why did I indentify with that song so much?
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
Yeah, I resemble that too. I mean I know things weren't great, but I guess I never realized they were this bad either. I just can't take sole responsibility though. He chose to betray our marriage and continue to do so, not me, nor will I ever.
I do think though that somedays I tend to think it was better/worse than it really was, depending on my mood.
Thanks for coming by Neecy.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
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Last edited by sgctxok; 04/19/0806:52 PM.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
