cog, i signed up for that divorce support group that you recommended, thanks for the recommendation. looking forward to it. another perspective is always welcome.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
listening to a christian radio broadcast this morning, pastor was talking how God works in our life even when we don't necessarily see anything. and what he uses is usually within our own sphere. basically if we pray for our spouses to reengage in the relationship, we need to change, change our perspective, change our self. all i could think about was what divorce remedy stresses, change ourselves, for ourselves, and see what happens. the tough part is the patience it requires. we must wait on the Lords timing not our own.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
well, i just got out of the hospital after a rough weekend. had an attack of diverticulitis. long word. painful. wife was out of town during time of episode, she is the one who convinced me to go to er to have situation evaluated. glad i did. i know my wife still cares , because she called at least 6or 7 times during first day in hospital. start divorce, seperation meeting tonight. should be enlightning.hope.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
I hope you are feeling much better now. Good sign that W called that often to see how you were doing. D meeting certainly not something to look forward to especially when you just got out of the hospital. Take care of yourself.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
addie, my mistake, this is a support group for seperated and divorced people. my wife has made no moves towards divorce other than filing first set of papers. i am being realistic though. i know she could start up process any day. to be honest i at times wonder why she seems happy to continue to live in the same house, in limbo. life goes on. The Lord is control, i must remember that. thanks addie, for you concern.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
addie, my mistake, this is a support group for seperated and divorced people. my wife has made no moves towards divorce other than filing first set of papers. i am being realistic though. i know she could start up process any day. to be honest i at times wonder why she seems happy to continue to live in the same house, in limbo. life goes on. The Lord is control, i must remember that. thanks addie, for you concern.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
addie, my mistake, this is a support group for seperated and divorced people. my wife has made no moves towards divorce other than filing first set of papers. i am being realistic though. i know she could start up process any day. to be honest i at times wonder why she seems happy to continue to live in the same house, in limbo. life goes on. The Lord is control, i must remember that. thanks addie, for you concern.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
addie, my mistake, this is a support group for seperated and divorced people. my wife has made no moves towards divorce other than filing first set of papers. i am being realistic though. i know she could start up process any day. to be honest i at times wonder why she seems happy to continue to live in the same house, in limbo. life goes on. The Lord is control, i must remember that. thanks addie, for you concern.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
