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frank_D #1377502 03/06/08 05:31 PM
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Grace,

I'm tired of the spew. She has a very strange concept of "marital property" and what's fair. I need to be away from her for awhile. I'm a much better person than she makes me out to be.

That's where I am.


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: ( Sorry man.

I'm not the standard, to me stuff is just stuff. If I can replace it then it just dropped off of my radar as important.

When my wife wanted to be fair and offered things back, I told her the sentimental stuff I didn't want or desire and anything else I could replace they were just things.

Now retirement...the ability to provide for my children...that's different. But a TV...its just a TV.

Get away from her for a bit man, talk later? OK?

An enforced break from the boards has done me well. I like my drama from netflix.



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Jack, Grace,

I'm OK. I'll talk with you both later.

Grace, I'm here for you.


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Drew,

My W thinks a fair division is she gets the house, the business and the business property and I get the debt. No joke. Oh yeah, she expects "child support' even though we will have joint custody.


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Bomb and OM 12/15/06
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Drew,

No nothing bad happened, just changed my signature so people can see where I am coming from. And apparently there are 255 character limitations on the sig. : )

How you doing?



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I'm done.

I just took my ring off.


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I took my ring off twice.

Once as a dramatic gesture, yeah, never works.

The second time because I was done, or rather I believed I was done. Hell I wanted to be done.

You have my email buddy. You have my number, any time...well any time I am home.



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Drew,

Talk to us if you need/want to.

HUGS

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I'm OK. A little angry, but OK.

Thanks for your concern. I may try to post an update later tonight.

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Do what ever you need to do. Not for anyone here, but for you.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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