It's good that you called him on his rudness. You don't need to be treated like that and he needs to know it. Im glad to hear you are getting better. Like Joie said maybe H will catch it and have as much fun!
Have a good day with your ^PMA.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I am feeling better today (Hi Sue and thanks..). Still super drained, but hanging in there.
Saw my new counselor today (1st visit was last week). She is really nice. She wants me to sit H down (when I feel he will be receptive) and give him 2 statements. The first one is about the fact that I deserve a 'real' apology for the A, a heartfelt one, and that I need to know (for closure) that he is accepting appropriate blame. He may or may not do this, but I put it out there for him to think about.
The second thing is kind of a truth dart (hi choc!), just a quick frank statement about how this D will devastate the girls, and will change their outlook about men (and their own father) for life. And the outlook change will not be good.
The second thing is kind of a truth dart (hi choc!), just a quick frank statement about how this D will devastate the girls, and will change their outlook about men (and their own father) for life. And the outlook change will not be good.
Hey NCB, there are many St. Pauls. Probably 25 (I recently helped my son pick a Confirmation name....). No doubt the new one would be "St. Paul of Yellow Submarine."
And lwb, great advice from your C. I will likely toss that "truth dart" to my wife during our next divorce conversation.
