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Thanks fig and BA...

The thing is, the police can call the loss prevention office I talked to and they will tell them exactly what register and what time they used my card and chances are good that the security camera would have caught them. So... bad for them, but not necessarily good that I will get my $ back.

Too much drama for me.


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I used to lose money ALL the time, I could never find it.

then a certain someone moved out and I haven't lost a dime since!

don't kick yourself in the nards too hard over this, sheeit happens.

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Julie,

I hope you get some of your money back but thank goodness everything is now put to a stop.

Hugs to you and don't beat yourself up. You do the best you can do and sometimes our best is a slip!


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Well, just got off the phone w/ my L and the judge. The final orders trial is set for March 17th. The hope is that we will settle prior to that.


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Oh Julie,

Let the games begin! As much as I was anxious to get it all behind me, I still met the date with mixed emotions. Let's have a drink!

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Boy that date still resonates with me. It is the date that OW had finally got D talked into filing on so they filed the same day. Day after she announced the d at the hugh March dog show cluster.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{ Julie }}}}}}}}}}}}}


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Tough couple of days for you Julie - HUGS!


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Hey Joools!!!

You really do have the best kids ever!!! And, your mom ain't too shabby either.

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Sorry for the cr*p, Julie, but really, looking at the positives is your best bet.

Look at the wonderful things that came out of this:

Your girls *get* it. Really. A lot. They understand empathy...and I know from experience that not all kids really understand this just because it's their mommy. They've learned this from you, sweetie, and what an amazing, wonderful thing to find out about your kids. It really makes me want to weep.

You also found out you are always supported. Accept the help, dear. You'd offer it to others, so it's available to you as well. Know that you are loved and always supported, no matter what.

I really believe that nothing happens by accident, and so it's a matter of looking at each situation to find out what it teaches you. There is a gift in all of it.

You are amazing. Someday I want to be you!

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Julie,

Sounds like a very crappy day.

Your kids are beautiful. When all the money on that card is gone, they'll still be beautiful. When the fraudulent credit card charges are all cleared, your kids will be still beautiful. When this day and all the pain and stress that came with it are just a distant memory, your kids will still be beautiful.

March 17th is quite a ways off. Whatcha gonna do next on the Jingle and Jangle front?

Hugs and prayers,

Joe


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