Heading off to work, but just got an email from STBX... apparently he is taking issue with the person I chose to do the CMA of my house for the settlement... and it was the realtor we bought the house from. Sheesh. I can't win for losin'.
I think the correct phrase is "I can't win with this loser!"
Good one Rob!
Julie,
Now let me get this straight. You talked to him last night and he never mentioned a thing about this??? He is sooooooooooooooo P/A. Either he lays in beds thinking of this stuff to b&tch about or he's not much liking that he has so little control. He's questioning all of the details because he didn't call the shots.
Well for once the Broncos won the game so the weekend is a success.
Feeling a little under the weather as I am fighting a cold, but life goes on. Last night I asked D4 who put her hair in a pony tail and she said OW. Then she said "Daddy kissed OW and they love each other and they danced and he picked her up" in a sing-song voice. I didn't react. D6 didn't either so today I brought that up with her... I want her to know she can talk to me about her feelings, even about this. So I asked her if she wanted to talk about anything and of course she said the D. I then said "D4 was talking about daddy and OW last night" and D6 said 'yeah, they kissed'. So I asked her how she felt about that and she said ok. So I just said I wanted her to know she can talk to me about anything. And it was over. I'm really trying to put my best foot forward here, folks. I'm trying to take a page from C2's playbook about extending my hand, yada yada. I'm trying to get my head on straight and maintain some peace about this. So keep us in your thoughts. Cuz I need all the support I can get!
Gotta nip that little cold in the buds. I'm perscribing plenty of liquids, rest, and I'm putting you on a clear liquid diet. Don't ask I just am! (I was ALMOST a Nurse you know!)
I know that husband is not your favorite person at the moment, but it still smatz to think that they can move on so effortlessly, as if it's business as usual. I really believe that because he has so many issues, and such deep pain, that they feel entitled. That makes it easy for them to justify doing as they please.
Doing this at other peoples expense?? Not a problem. They detach so much that they can't feel our pain. Being able to separate what we're doing, from what we're doing to someone who loves us, makes it all possible!
