I wonder if those of you that are dating have gotten to a point with your friend if you talk about everyday mundane things? I mean things that are not intense, just ordinary daily stuff?
Not sure I and my R count but Tx and I talk about everyday stuff sometimes.
Things sound great in Fender's world!!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
I wonder if those of you that are dating have gotten to a point with your friend if you talk about everyday mundane things? I mean things that are not intense, just ordinary daily stuff?
Not sure I and my R count but Tx and I talk about everyday stuff sometimes.
Things sound great in Fender's world!!
You always count and I appreciate your input.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
Fender, Stumbling in for a visit...bleary eyed...forgot to get coffee last night so I am subjected to work swill. Like drinking pond water on Indian summers day. It's good to know that all is still well with you man. To think that not quite a year ago things were dramatically different... peace
Well the coffee is good this morning and I need it. The W called with some BS last night and I had a hard time processing it. It seems she is moving in with a friend because she can't seem to live within her means.
This friend lives in some kind of goverment project and not to be sterotypical but I don't want D12 to be exposed what goes on in that type enviroment. Not to mention it is about 50 miles from here. I talked to GF about it last night and she thinks STBXW has went off of the deep end.
Exchanged e-mail with CM yesterday. I can see why Scott and HS like him some much, he is one nice guy.
My luck seems to be crap lately. I was just eating some dried fruit and managed to chip a tooth. How in the heck do you do that? Now I have to schedule a dental appointment, yuck.
Going to see a neurosurgeon today. I got a copy of the MRI yesterday and it seems I have degenerative disk disease. Whatever, I got news for old sawbones, he isn't cutting on me. Pain manangement and a chiropractor should get me by for now.
Hope everyone is well and feeling good today?
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
I take fiber pills twice a day, plus the dried fruit so I know about paint peeling, LOL.
Yeah, GF noticed some change in the STBXW's behavoir and made the call about a week ago that the W was about to bolt. I swear GF seems to have a radar for that kind of stuff. Also GF is very supportive and says what we all know, you can't control it.
So GF and I talked about how to protect D12 from the sitch. This is not getting any easier but it sure does help having a professional for a GF. The woman knows kids and people for that matter.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
Well technically I have custody, she justs visits the STBXW two weekends a month. I just don't want D12 exposed to that crap at all, not even for four days a month.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
I intend to make my point. As far as her bills, I have no clue what she is spending her money on? I know we worked out a budget for her when she left and although it left little for incidentals it was not a negative number either. Since that time I have no clue what obligations she has picked up? Don't care really, not my problem.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
