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Missouri, Im good. Im in a fantastic mood and have been doing quite well this week, I look fwd for the wknd.

Oh yeah, no bra is a turn on. I know for sure I do see the things I would like to see but I make no comments. Thats great you into Spanish cooking, myself I make most dinners with my traditional cultural cooking. I seldom make American dinners.

I agree you should look you best perhaps you will get a peck on your cheeks for starters and there it will all begin.

Keep on Iming. IM about anything and everything to H.


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Last night H came for his regular visit & to take the girls to Walmart for school shopping & guess who HAD to be waiting for him there...?OW. God does she ever leave him alone? He cant even spend his visits ALONE with his kids!!! I dont know but I would of thought H wold be tired of her constant clinginess by now!!!

Today via IM I will mention this. I willno t be mean or anything but I will tell him how I enjoy my time alone, one on one w/ the girls and why arent you "allowed" to do the same?he he j/k... I am glad I didn't show up to Walmart as I thought about doing!

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See this is what I need a little LOL to brighten up my day. Geeze for real, why is OW clinging on like lint? It seems that OW dont trust H to be around W for lenghty periods of time.


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She's a control freak and nobody likes a control freak. If she has to go to such great lengths to secure him, maybe she's not so sure of him? Also, he may be scared of her.


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Seems to me H is scared of OW. If I was H, I am sure I cant deal with her clingingness (is that a word?). I would fear much from her since its possible OW may go to extreme lenghts to find out if H is for real.


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Yeah, I also thought H is scared to upset her in a any way. i think also b/c he is living for free w/ her & he mentioned once that she was asking for him to help her out until he told her of all his/our debts.

But in all seriousnesss who wants a R out of fear?that would be exhausting to me.

In our earlier IM convo I told him from the get go I did not want argue, but dont you ever just want some alone time w/ your kids? Will she "allow" that? I said I sure do enjoy my one on one time w/ them. His response- F*** you. I know he loves his kids to death but he is to busy playing the good behavior toher all the time & sooon that will die.

I stopped writing back & again told him I did not want to argue.

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I know for sure I would not want one of those kinds of R. Well its good you told H you dont want to argue. Funny, I do the same thing too. Coincidentally, I get the same f*** you answer at times. Why are the they so angry? Why all the tension?

Positive attitude, chicki, positive attitude.

We dont need to blow our tops.


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Well, according to my ex...it's still all my fault and why am I "so cryptic" about everything.


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Right on, chicki. I wouldn't write back either. He isn't being respectful and you have set up that boundary.

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Thats what I get too, "its all your fault..." I said problems are created by 2 people For every action, there is a reaction whether it maybe positive/negative. We tend to look more at negatives than anything else in our lives. As a result, we find faults. We tend to overlook all the positives in life.

Does anyone awake and say to him/herself, what a beautiful day it is, I feel so alive? Instead, we say its Monday and back to work, wah wah wah. Or we would say not another day with the spouse with his/her b***** mood.


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