That's awesome advice, and that's precisely what I'm doing, with NOP's help. I have my moments of doubt and weakness, but they are always with him (and with all of you), and I have displayed NOTHING but steely and loving resolve with my wife.
Nah, I have a feeling if I knew you Choc, we'd be too good of friends for me to ever have become an OM to your W.
In fact, I'd probably be the friend that wanted to kick OM's butt for yah. Although, truth be told, as you all know I was an OM at one time, and it is not a fun place to be. I don't know what kind of person your OM is Choc, but if he has a shred of decency inside him, he is hurting somewhere in there too. I would pity him in that case. Now if he was a blackfoot kind of OM, that's a different story.
Keep the faith Choc
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
She must really be over-the-edge. I can't imagine dating a guy who still lives with his parents. Of course, there would be some advantages to dating a PT, at least temporarily. Like I could figure out why I can't chest pop like my 10 year old niece.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Doesn't matter what he's like Choc, he's paying HER some much needed attention and that's what's getting the chemicals going. She cannot see him for what he is, all he is doing is reflecting back to her how great she is at a time in her life, when for whatever reason, she needs to hear that.
"Mirror, mirror on the wall who's the fairest of them all"
"You are" he answers back. Who gives a stuff what the actual mirror looked like.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
