I know, N. It's been 3 mo now since H moved out, and he has NEVER by one word indicted that the kids are anyting but "just fine" w/the sitch. Last wk he told me D was asking if he or I would be marrying someone else, and that she seemed excited to think about maybe getting a stepsister. . .He thinks its a Positive that "the kids never tell me they are unhappy" or "they act fine" w/him. When D told me she'd cried at H's apt & he held her, put her into his bed & lay down w/her until she fell asleep, she told me she "forgot" she could call me if she was sad or missing me and - even to ME - couldn't/wouldn't say anything other than she was said b/c she was missing her comforter. . . Oh, yeah, they are doing fine - and H is going to do his dambest to convince (and be convinced of) it.
So now we have a crisis b/c D's pink baby blanket is AWOL! Last I remember, she took it w/her when we were on the road Monday (I think). OMG!!
So, I'm just popping in to read (lurk) for now. Got an impromptu slumber-party going on w/S & 2 boys (other 2 friends left about 40 min ago) and, since about 5 calls to D's friends couldn't produce a girl to come sleep over, I am D's BFF for tonight. She's taken a bubble bath in my tub, wants to have a pillow fight & then read her new library books b/f going to sleep - Oh, and I have to sleep on the trundle bed in her room tonight just like a "real" friend would. lol
And, oh yeah, H called earlier to talk to the kids and ask me if it was ok if he didn't p/u the kids (his wkend thru Tues) until late afternoon tomorrow. We talked, pretty businesslike but not unfriendly, and he ended it w/ "Okay, then, I'll p/u the kids tomorrow. . . Later". (I guess the "dude" was implied - .)
Ok. Pillow-fight time. Will be back later.
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Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Me: 45 - WAH: 36 S8; D6 M: 11 yrs 07/06 Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07 To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D
No, no. I meant this (from Sunny): "Welp, I can always count on..."
Nomo, your Plan wouldn/t be, uh, short by any chance would it?
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Me: 45 - WAH: 36 S8; D6 M: 11 yrs 07/06 Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07 To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D
It's about 3 pp. right now. 10 point font. It's really more of a summary of DR, with my personal; stuff (goals, strategies mixed in). I want to be able to review it frequently. I also feel better when I have my hands around a solid, well thought out, complete plan.
Actually, I am a little nervous to put it out there. What do you think?
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
Are you kidding???? (only slightly joking...) You have quite the bunch of groupies you know (wink, wink...it's really the couple of glasses of wine talking from my fun evening with friends, you know! BUt what the heck!)
Seriously, as you can tell from your own thread and from comments on others', a lot of us feel that you have a lot to offer by way of your own analysis and comments...count me as one who much appreciates your contributions.
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