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pws, what day??? U can probably guess my birthday....

Sweets I think u need to get job or something...u are obsessing WAYYYYYY too much...

take it from a Queen like me...Princesses must act gracious, be cool under pressure....grin when the feel like crying...in short, you must be a steel magnolia...

I know you can do this...you need to fill your time with something else, something for you...go back to school to get your Masters....I am gonna finish my Masters---that is a goal for ME.

Future Princess, everyone is attracted to a woman who is happy and sure about herself----everyone wants to be around that person...

I know you can do this, sweets...

Luv u!
Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

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the princess goes for mediation June 12 and a pre-trial hearing if needed the same day later in the day.....sad day at the castle....but i guess it had to be. Will meet with paralegal monday for financials a.....due in court by 5-1......and probably with lawyer soon after for battle plans against nasty alien dragon...sigh...practice the walk.....


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OW 25
Bomb may 06
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ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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waiting for spew from dragon.......sad he is soooo lost. But the princess has needs as do her prescious animals....its time to come before OW....wicked witch that she is...gnome...troll....


Me 53
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OW 25
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left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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Help...princess had MAJOR backslide today.....


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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Hi PWS

sorry you have having a bad day.
time to paint your nails and take a walk?
forget about everything but you.......
sending {{{hugs}}}
H


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gosh need a trip......a long one....wanted to go to MA this weekend....no vehicle....and afraid to leave house as to H coming and taking stuff again....really need to leave....Vali thought i should go to the UK and ride horses....i actually know someone over there....it would be finding a place for my horses and dogs here.....after today i really would like to disappear.....til its over....


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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RELAX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Start getting a hobby, a class, anything.


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The good news is smudgie appears to be feeling better....even wagged his bum today....corgis are tailess....but have tail-wagging muscles!


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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PWS

Where in MA did you want to go? I lived there for 21 yrs.
maybe a day trip would do you good?

did you know that they make chain locks that you can lock with a key from outside when you leave.
I had one on my house when I lived on the military base. I did not want base people in my house when I went away. You never knew who had keys.

maybe that would ease some stress and you won't be afraid to leave.

I went through a stage like that when H was in his D mode in the fall. I was afraid to leave and come home to find he had been there and took things.

can I ask what happened to make the day so bad?
glad you dog is feeling better. We don't do well when our best friends are not feeling well.

hope your feeling somewhat better.
H


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I have friends in the Andover area and one of my horses is there......well i have friends on the north shore as well....and Millis....jeesh everywhere.....

I lost it with H and had major backslide.....found out he hadnt made a payment on CC since sept! One he took out in my name...so guess whose credit rating it tanks??? Called him up and ripped him a new one and then it just went down hill from there...broke every DB-ing rule there is....so whatever im sure he went strait into arms of OW and gave him reasons for D and hating me. ive been so stressed out i just snapped. But told him a part of me still loves him and it is so hard to realize i cant help him...its his trip....he couldnt say he loves OW and he couldnt say he wants to close the door on this forever.....I dont know he said.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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