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Re: Caught in limbo [Re: WMWB] #2906576
10/23/20 03:57 PM
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I honestly do not know what she would have thought finding them. She is on medication herself and has been for quite a while. To be honest I am at the point where I am not sure if I am going to take them or not as I am quite logical in my thinking and would like to try a few IC sessions first to see what happens there.

Re: Caught in limbo [Re: Steve85] #2906580
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Originally Posted by Steve85

WMWB, question: Do you think it made her respect you more or less finding the meds you've started using? Did it make you look strong or weak? You should have hid those from her like gold.

Steve makes a good point. Our brains have not developed much in the last 10-40k years. When Neanderthals roamed the earth the women would look to men for strength for survival. If he was not strong she and the children would likely end up dead. Just as the same is why you are so anxious about your situation. Back then if you were rejected from the tribe you were likely dead meat. Her brain doesn’t know the difference and your brain doesn’t know the difference. Both are trying to keep each of you safe.


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