Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Thats the thing. She denied the car door thing, but tiptoed around the beating. Hence her saying anything shes told anyone was not a lie. She knows exactly what she is trying to do.
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Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Well... W is at it again with the birth certificates. Sent a text asking if I'd put them in the mailbox for her. I told her no. That they sat in the mailbox for 3 days last time and I didn't see any reason to help her since she was going around spreading lies about me. She asked "What lies?" I said telling everyone that I beat you, slam your head in car doors, etc.. Her response was "Slam my head in car doors? Who says I told them that?" Followed by "I've not been spreading lies. Anything I've told someone has not been a lie. If I believed everything people said about you, I wouldn't even be talking to you" I don't do a damn thing, so I'm not sure what she could even be referring to. Oh yeah, I forgot. Scrambled eggs for brains. Anyway, she said she was going to come over with the cops and get the birth certificates and "her stuff". All of her things have been out of here for months. I told her if she wanted the birth certificates, she could come get them today during the day before 5. Reason being, I won't be here. I am afraid to be around her by myself. I have had several people tell me that she has been trying to show them bruises on her face, saying that I beat her recently. I'm afraid she has reached the point of self harm to try to convince people that I am abusive towards her. The last thing I need is her coming by the house, going home and smacking her head on a table a few times, and then heading into the police to say I did it. My mom will be here today watching the kids while I go to work, so if she wants the birth certificates so bad, she can get them from her...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
Yes. I was working yesterday and my mom was at the house watching the kids. That's why I told her to get them that day before 5. I knew my mom would be here and I would be gone. With all her recent accusations, I do not want to be near her for fear of her saying I did something to her. She showed up at 1:30, knocked on the door, asked for the birth certificates, got them, and left. She didn't see the kids or even ask about them. They were all downstairs playing when she showed up. She hasn't seen the kids since May 23. I thought for sure she would have given them a pat on the head, said ILY, and hung out with them for 5 minutes just so she could say that she saw them. Having a hard time wrapping my ming around how a mother can be like this towards her children. I never will understand either, so I don't waste my time trying to figure it out. Her selfishness is appalling...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
W just showed up out of the blue. Saw the kids for 15 minutes. Fisrt time she's seen them in close to month. Recorded on my phone the whole time she was here. Denied ever telling anyone that I beat her. When I told her I was recording, she asked why and I told her because of all the accusations she's been making that I needed to cover my ass. She left immediately. While she was here, she asked me about what was in the divorce papers because she hasn't been served yet. I filled her in and told her I wanted primary custody of the kids. She said she was going to fight me for that...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
She also sent me a text a couple minutes after she left saying, "I don't get why we can't co-parent?"...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
She also sent me a text a couple minutes after she left saying, "I don't get why we can't co-parent?"...
"If you'd shown any interest in your children in the last month, i would have perhaps considered filing the paperwork differently. You have shown through your actions, or lack-thereof, that seeing the children and being a parent is not important to you other than using it as leverage against me"
Too Rough?
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
