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hawker #2732142 02/28/17 01:59 AM
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I agree with the Hawk... Truer words were never spoken...

hawker #2732700 03/03/17 01:50 PM
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Hi bsb,
Just checking in. How are you?


Me: 35 W: 32
MR: 2y T: 3.5y
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BD: 11/3/16
EA: 10/26/16
PA: 11/11/16
W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16
Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL
I filed for D: 12/14/16
D-day: 3/10/17
fightin #2733230 03/08/17 07:30 AM
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Thanks for checking in fightin

Not much has happened. Her attorney will not try to settle or even tell us what they want. I do well most days, I still think about her way to much. Seems worse now then it did a month or two ago. Hard to explain why? I keep thinking how I've got to this point in my life. Work is very busy and i try to keep busy on the weekends.

I have a couple women that keep wanting to go out but I know I'm not ready. It's been 6 months from when this started. Hard to believe.....

bsb #2733240 03/08/17 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted By: bsb
I have a couple women that keep wanting to go out but I know I'm not ready. It's been 6 months from when this started. Hard to believe.....


No harm in going out just to talk and enjoy life (i.e. nothing romantic). Just make that clear going into the night out.


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
KevinIn #2733245 03/08/17 09:16 AM
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No harm in going out just to talk and enjoy life (i.e. nothing romantic). Just make that clear going into the night out.


You'll find that even just getting coffee works wonders for the soul.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Dawgs #2734108 03/14/17 12:09 PM
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I agree with the above. I keep slipping and catch myself missing her a lot the last few weeks. We haven't had any contact in several weeks. It seems like she's finally move on and past it now. It's still heartbreaking to me each day.

Yesterday was the day we got engaged and brought up a lot of memories

bsb #2734154 03/14/17 07:12 PM
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bsb, I feel for you man. Hang in there and don't give up on yourself. You can't control her.


M-41, W-38
M - 6.5 years

12/14/16 - Bomb drop - At his house instead of at work (GPS)
1/18/17 went from emotional to physical affair more lies
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I haven't been on here in several weeks. I had a good trip to Mexico and was able to relax some. No changes at all in my situation and still waiting on her attorney. I don't know why after everything she's done that I can't seem to shake some feelings. I catch myself thinking about the past about every day and still miss her. I feel like it's never going to end and that I will stay broken. My birthday last week was the worst. First time in 5 years I didn't spend it with her.

Hope everyone is doing well

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It will get much easier. And better. Go find some strange. Works wonders.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
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Hope everyone is doing ok!

I'm still trying to move on. Better each day but no changes in the divorce process. Her attorney won't respond nor will she. I did see her today passing in a parking lot. Neither of us waived. I can't lie, it did bring up a lot of feelings. I guess I still love her deep down....

I would wish this upon anyone!!

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