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abuse resource threads with Zelda

Every 10 threads there is a new name

Threads 1 to 10 early days, awakening, struggling with abuse, in house S

Threads 10 to 20 the split, aftermath, antics, triggers and destruction, depression

Threads 20 to 30 standing still, realisations deep dark, NC and complex PTSD, raw hurting and learning

Threads 30 and 31 transitions, putting the D together, D games then D

All in Newcombers

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32 onwards Surviving the Big D, high conflict D, fins and real distress, bereavement, change and big struggles


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Would the superhero who resserected the edit button, please know I am so grateful.

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If

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream -- and not make dreams your master;
If you can think -- and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings -- nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run --
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And -- which is more -- you'll be a Man, my son!

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Or thriver my loving one

Apologies to Rudyard Kipling

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Just going to list OWs

The Giggalo and.......

Pre M Dinner Lady (wedding food)

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OW1 Fish wife ( she wet the bed)
OW2 Pizza face (alcoholic bad skin, starting to look masculine)
OW3 Tongue down my throat (golfer also alcoholic)
POW4 Casual friend (warned this one)
OW5 Tampon (left in my bin)
OW6 Faux L
OW7 Maggotroni1
OW8 Maggotroni2=RIT (Russian Italian Tramp)

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You know what they say about rats? Where there is one there are 50 hidden.

That's all folks

So has he changed for OW8?

Unlikely

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Vanilla,

I wish that I could give you a hug. You've had so much going on and still so much more left to take care of. Hopefully, in the next few months you can get some stuff ironed out and finally resolved. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Thank you job.

Hugs are very necessary.

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