Zing... and there they are. Served via email. followed up with several texts from my W. --- "I sent you a bunch of email from attorney, the wording is super harsh and I hate it, and I'm so sorry. I do love you. I just don't feel we are right for one another. I've felt this way for a while and I know you have too. We've always lacked passion and spark, it's time we both choose to be happy."
"I wish and hope we could sit and talk" --- I'm putting my phone on airplane mode, and gotta get the eff outta here for a minute... I knew it was here/coming, and thought I was ready... but I'm ready to rage, and I need a breather. I feel like screaming and breaking things!
I am sorry. What a horrible feeling. We are here for you! Vent away!
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
Thank you both for your concerns... I am not in a state to vent yet, I'm still at a loss of words and stumbling around trying to wrap myself around this.
My W just called me and I didn't answer. I really just do not want to talk to her at all right now, or probably for a few days... I hope she's not planning on forcing this 'talk' and waiting for me at home tonight when get off work.
Yeah, give it plenty of time before talking to her. I hope you have some friends or family to hang out with this evening. My thoughts are with you; I know how tough it is.
Quick question, if she IS at the house, do I remain LRT "positive and upbeat?" this is going to be so difficult to do. I feel like I will come across with "sorrow and grief" instead.
Man I'm sorry to hear this I remember being served the first time around Reading it and wondering how in the hell did two people love each other get to this point. It certainly is tough what you are going no through I would still clear of any talk with W at the moment If she is there, just say, "I respect your decision. I don't think divorce is the solution. I will can continue to work in myself and I don't want to discuss this right now." If she pushes just ask her to respect your wishes. If she continues to push then do your very best to just walk away It's going to be hard But you know your emotions are at a volcanic level and nothing good will come from having a talk with her right now
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
Man i got mine via email also. 20 days to respond. I'm going the full 20 days. Talked to my lawyer today. got to come up with some major money, but will be worth every penny. I'm feeling really good after talking to my lawyer. Not sure if its normal, but I feel at peace for the first time. hang in there.
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015
