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It's over...no more need to DB #2663505 03/17/16 06:06 PM
Joined: Feb 2016 Posts: 770 midwest B broke OP Member
OP broke Member B Joined: Feb 2016 Posts: 770 midwest	I just wanted to thank everyone for the support over the last month or so. I found out today that my WH is a serial cheater. Been doing it the entire time we've been married. I am done. Officially, I no longer have any desire to be with someone like that. So, there is no more need for me to DB for reconciliation. I will continue to DB for me and to be best mom I can be. Hopefully, my boys will be nothing like their father. I will check in occasionally to see how everyone is doing. You all will still be in my prayers. I sincerely hope you all get the outcomes that are meant to be. Your help and advice was invaluable to me. I've grown a ton in 8 months and I hope to find happiness. ((Hugs)) http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2660919#Post2660919 Last edited by Cadet; 03/18/16 05:07 AM. Reason: Link M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12 ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16

Re: It's over...no more need to DB broke #2663507 03/17/16 06:12 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 18,666 Likes: 1 S sandi2 Member
sandi2 Member S Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 18,666 Likes: 1	Oh Broke! I am so sorry. (((Broke))) It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!

Re: It's over...no more need to DB sandi2 #2663508 03/17/16 06:14 PM
Joined: Nov 2015 Posts: 236 T tfish08 Member
tfish08 Member T Joined: Nov 2015 Posts: 236	i'm sorry. stay strong

Re: It's over...no more need to DB tfish08 #2663509 03/17/16 06:28 PM
Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 457 D daybyday Member
daybyday Member D Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 457	So sorry Hope. You deserve better. Raise them boys the best you know how. Thank you for all you have helped me with. Keep in touch as often as you are okay with. Hugs to you. Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent. Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016

Re: It's over...no more need to DB daybyday #2663512 03/17/16 07:04 PM
Joined: Mar 2016 Posts: 8 T TLeft New Member
TLeft New Member T Joined: Mar 2016 Posts: 8	You deserved better. I am sorry. M: 30 H: 26 T: 10 M: 6 2 Dogs BD: 3/06/16 W left: 3/10/16

Re: It's over...no more need to DB daybyday #2663514 03/17/16 07:12 PM
Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado T Thornton Member
Thornton Member T Joined: Nov 2013 Posts: 2,799 Likes: 13 Colorado	Broke, Thank you for always being there for me. You didn't deserve any of this. I hope you continue to work on you and keep on being such a great mom to your boys. There's a lucky man in your future. Thornton

Re: It's over...no more need to DB Thornton #2663529 03/17/16 08:13 PM
Joined: Feb 2016 Posts: 466 MI S Sparkls Member
Sparkls Member S Joined: Feb 2016 Posts: 466 MI	We love you. We're always here if you just need to vent! M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward

Re: It's over...no more need to DB Sparkls #2663530 03/17/16 08:15 PM
Joined: Apr 2015 Posts: 1,387 P PigPen Member
PigPen Member P Joined: Apr 2015 Posts: 1,387	Keep using the board Broke, use it to vent, to throw out ideas, to keep around positive people and to see reassure yourself there are good men out there that are willing to fight for their families. I'm so sorry this happened to you, you deserve so much better. Big hug, PP M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17

Re: It's over...no more need to DB PigPen #2663549 03/17/16 09:10 PM
Joined: Apr 2015 Posts: 1,450 Mid-West P Painter Member
Painter Member P Joined: Apr 2015 Posts: 1,450 Mid-West	I am so very sorry! That is a horrible betrayal and incredibly hurtful. My heart goes out to you. Please don't disappear completely. M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17

Re: It's over...no more need to DB Painter #2663560 03/17/16 09:44 PM
Joined: Jan 2016 Posts: 1,081 MA P Phoebe Member
Phoebe Member P Joined: Jan 2016 Posts: 1,081 MA	Oh no. What a horrible thing to discover. I am so sorry this has happened to you and your children. Please do check in on us here. Your thoughts on my own situation have meant a lot to me, and I'm sure to many others, as well. Take care of yourself. H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16

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