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mutatio #2667944 04/10/16 10:10 AM
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Mutatio,
I have been where you are right now.
Consider the following.
Aren't you kind of divorced already?
You cannot touch your wife, sleep with her, say you love her...
This is not the end, it clarifies things and may relieve the weight you feel on your shoulders once the initial shock passes.
Nothing is different, the swamp has just dried and you are in solid land.
You know what you want, so just keep working on that.
You've seen from this board that divorce is not the end of DBing.
Hang in there, we are here for you.


Me43 W39
M 12y,T 15y
S09,S07
Bomb Jun14
Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15
Share bed Mar/May15
Reconcile Jun15
Aug15 W sais D will happen
D told to kids Sept15
W moved out with kids 01 October15
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Big big hugs and love

This is just rotten news

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Vanilla #2667948 04/10/16 10:16 AM
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Mu! I am so so sorry!


BD 2/15
separation 1/16
formerly Pho or Fo
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Hey ,

So sorry to hear. Those are the words that hope keeps us from hearing until it comes from her mouth.

Hey you can get through this, feel all the pain. It yours to feel. It allows you to get to what is next. The rest of your life.

look after you, Mutatio


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016
ARose #2667957 04/10/16 10:28 AM
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Hey lovely! Sorry to read the new development in your sitch. Remember you are not alone in this, the party bus's engine is running and we can rally at a moments notice! Love you Mutatio. xxx

mutatio #2667960 04/10/16 10:39 AM
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Mutatio

You are in my prayers and may you be strong and have the peace needed to get through this.


Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
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I love you all. I am so empty now. Why finish the garage? Why do any of it? The classic cars are now bargaining chips towards the negotiated settlement. The furniture, everything is nothing. Why do any work on anything. I can't even keep the tractor I cut the lawn with, everything's a chip.

I have lost interest in everything except my kids. The rest of it is just possessions to divide up.



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus
mutatio #2667962 04/10/16 10:43 AM
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How do I get on the bus Jelly, I'd like to talk to you and ARose.



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus
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It's all gone. My hopes, my dreams, everything that could have been. All that's left is to dismantle my life. I feel so empty and hollow.



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus
mutatio #2667965 04/10/16 11:04 AM
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Hey Mu,

Time to find the bus!
DB on FB last post.
I am who I am!
Diana


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M-45 H-38
My children S-25 D-23
T 5 M 4
H left April Fools Day 2015

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