I'm back and my heart is broken

[overcom]

Lol. Your right and she comes from a strong Christian family.


So it's his bday do I text him now or wait till later? He's out with her right now.

[Sotto]

Hi Overcom, sorry about the yukky stuff on FB. Best not even to read that - can you unfollow?

As for a text - I'd be tempted to leave it entirely and do something nice for yourself today. B'day texts are for those friends and loved ones who cherish you and support your wellbeing - is he really in that group right now?

Take care xx

[Vanilla]

I agree with Sotto.

Your birthday wishes may not even be wanted by him. In his eyes you are no longer his W.

V

[overcom]

My thoughts exactly just wanted someone to confirm. Thank you

[overcom]

Apparently I was nasty; didn't shower for days, didn't shave my legs. My hygiene was very very dirty. Hahhah I know he's talking abut himself. Not me. That's for sure.

[PigPen]

Keep your chin up overcom, the truth can't hide forever. FB posts will be seen through, and I believe that people do just that. They see the lies, they see the hurt trying to be expressed, and they KNOW the truth.

Pay it no mind. Hell, let it fuel you. Let people show their true colors to the world while you continue to show yours. Stay in the light, shine it bright. The nastier they get, the cooler you are. The more a-holeness they put on social media, the stronger you are. It's going to hurt, burn, sting, and rip you up, but it won't break you. It's just fuel for the fire of you staying true to who you are.

I'm so sorry that people of low moral character have invaded your life, it's just crap. But don't give them your energy. Keep if for you and for S5 and D2. I'll say it again, all of this will come out in truth at some point. Hang on till then.

How sad that people feel the need to be so unkind to each other. How amazing that you're still here fighting for yourself and your kids.

PP

[Vanilla]

I posted on Phos thread today about projection.

This stuff on FB is projection.

Have you printed it off and sent it to your L? It's definitely libel, and you can have a harassment letter sent. At minimum a shot over the bough is warranted.

I had my L send one about the stuff on me, it stopped. Judges, mediators and arbiters don't like that sort of stuff.

V

[overcom]

Thanks pigpen for your words. I am fighting harder then before. I really need to do this for me and my kids. I am strong. I am very very strong but once in a while I brake down.

[gonegrl]

Overcome, you are the one who reminded me a couple of times to "smell good" and I always laugh when I remember that! Any man who would talk like that about the mother of his children is showing himself to be an a$$. I can't imagine anyone reading those posts and not thinking that he and his ow are anything but despicable.

[overcom]

I miss talking to you pho. Lol I always smelled good shaved showered. Always did my hair. Whatever let him be with an arrogant stuck up... for all I care!