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#2588287 07/15/15 04:40 PM
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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2587576&page=1

Yesterday W was texting me all day, just friendly chat. I dropped S off at neighbors after work to go to baseball and had to go help a friend. After I got home I cleaned the kitchen, painted the bedroom closet and was out of the shower and ready for bed when the phone rang. It was W, she wanted to come home! We talked about what she needed to do and what changes needed to be made and she came home. We still have a lot of work to do but I feel great about it. I'm sure S was pumped this morning when he got up and mom wAs there! She took the day off to spend with him.

It wasn't long ago that I was ready to give up but I stuck it out with your help and things turned around. Keep the faith! Thanks to all of you!

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Well done mate. I hope it all works out for you.


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EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
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OM still on the go.
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These posts need a like button. Happy for you!


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WOW! Awesome! I hope and pray I can post the same some day.

Best of luck. Seriously!

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I just said a prayer for you, and I'm only a little ashamed to admit that I got a tear in my eye...could have been taco bell hot sauce too. smile

Seriously, what great news and here's to a new beginning. Please keep sharing your progress with those of us who are still holding out hope that we have similar outcomes someday.


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ralphy #2588531 07/16/15 10:45 AM
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Thank you! I can attest that these methods work. It seems so backward but it does! I hope you all find happiness!

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My wife messaged me this morning, it said "a true relationship is two imperfect people refusing to give up on each other"

There's a lot of truth to that. Don't give up!

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Originally Posted By: Upnorth
We still have a lot of work to do but I feel great about it.

So what work do you need to do?


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That's awesome! Never give up....so true! People give up on relationships to quickly. I bet your S is pumped up, I'm happy for you.


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We need to work on communicating mainly, both of us tend to just ignore something that makes us mad rather than deal with it, then it builds up until your ready to explode.

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