Hi mate. All looking good for you. Keep up the good work.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Thanks guys! I think things are going pretty good, I really feel she is happy to see me and I am happy to see her, it feels good! I am able to communicate with her mostly without seeking advice on what to say, occasionally I need a little help and I'm glad you are here! I've lost count of how many times she has mentioned a future together in the law 10 days or so. I try to just remain calm and not push. I'm letting her set a pace she is comfortable with.
I agree. You need the space as much as she does at this point. She is suggesting that she is thinking hard about easing back, but needs to have some distance and control for perspective and thoughtful consideration of how things are going. I'd rather have that than rushing without careful thought only to realize that too many issues are unresolved and then another flight.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
W came over tonight and we sat on the deck for a while. She's having second thoughts about the rental house. I asked her why why doesn't just stay in the rental she is in for now? She thought maybe that was a good idea. That will probably change by tomorrow! She seems more like her old self but still real up and down. She is upset with the rumor mill around town. Of course when a married woman moves out of her home she's the target of lots of rumors. Nothing out of the ordinary. I told her I'm not worried about them. Sti planning a weekend getaway in a couple weeks. And a trip to the fair next week.
Nothing much has changed. Spent the weekend with S, a rope swing accident left him scraped and bruised. After that he stepped on a nail while helping me with a project😕 Things seem to continue on the right track, w texted me today about taking s to the fair next week and going to the cabin the following weekend, we decided to make it a 3 day trip. I'm looking forward to it! ..... But not too much😀
