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It's been a while since I posted, life goes on. I have been busy with getting the house painted and reassembled after the new floors. My GAL has seen me hike; go on a scavenger hunt; go to coffees, lunches, dinners, and happy hours with friends; attend yoga class; attend a cooking class; and tour a winery. Yesterday I spend the day at the beach with some friends. Tonight I'm attending a concert, tomorrow I might go SUP. I'm spending quality time at the gym, and I've applied for a few jobs.

H and I continue to get along well. On Father's Day I made a nice dinner for H and the kids, bought him a nice present on their behalf. We came to an agreement on our vacation plans (previously a source of much grief to me), and I"m happy with it. I'll be there three weeks total, H will be there one of those weeks. Sleeping arrangements have yet to be determined, but my intention is to claim the bedroom I've always used and let him sleep with the mosquitos if that's his choice.

I don't post much anymore, but wish all of you peace and detachment. wink



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Great to hear from you Sunny. Your ali ding positive and the holiday thing sounds great too.

Keep in touch. Take care. Rd

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Good to hear from you and just so happy you're doing so well. Thanks for keeping us in the loop. I'm glad you're keeping busy and having some fun. You are an inspiration.


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T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
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Sunny, I was so pleased to read your update. I agree you are an inspiration on these boards. I think it is so great that you manage to combine a rich and rewarding new life of your own with a constructive R with your H. I truly applaud you!

I'm glad that you have your holiday plans confirmed. I recall you posting earlier about them and know you were upset at the time. I hope you have a great time, and that you just carry on living a good life, as you are...

ps: looks like your thread may be about to lock grin


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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Glad to see you are getting along well, Sunny.



Edit - please start a new thread.

Last edited by Cadet; 07/06/15 10:11 AM.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3
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Thanks for the update, Sunny. Sounds like you are going well!


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014
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