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Hi all,

This is my second thread. I don't know how to add my old one but its called Surviving the Rollercoaster.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2522985#Post2522985

I'm taking a big step tomorrow. I'm going on a coffee date. Feeling a little nervous. Worst case senioro I meet some one new and take a step out of my comfort zone.

I will update you all!! Wish me luck!!

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Karma, that is great! Good luck on your coffee date. I also like your new thread name!


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BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05
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Hahah...thanks Jbird. I will update you tomorrow!


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wTF. Now my STBX is texting me. He texted me on Sat at 0245 in the am telling me all about his battles with his Fatthers Will. I did not respond until today. I kept it short and sweet. I said " sounds like a lot of work and stress. I hope it works out." He texted an hour ago " yes it was a lot of work and stress! " I did not reply. Now he's texting again....asking how I'm doing.....telling me about meeting with someone else we know...trying to engage me. I did not reply


Me 52 H 44
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BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





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Oh wow...I am on a ride of a life time right now.

I met a someone today for a coffee date. It went really well lasting three hours. We are going on a second date tomorrow night.

After that I went shopping and was starving so I went out for a bite at a local restaurant. I sat at the bar and there were a couple of other women sitting and having a drink and dinner too. We started chatting and they said they were a part of a group of women 16-20) that meet up and go out together. They took my number and me theirs. So I can be come part of their group.

This is such a gift. I am happy on my own but would love the option of having a BF to go out with or friends a couple times per week. I had such a great experince today...feeling very blessed. So glad I had the courage to go out.


Me 52 H 44
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BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





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Hey, that's awesome, glad you had a great day!


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BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05
DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005
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Thanks! Looks like the New Year is bringing some changes my way


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OW moved in 12/12
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Karma,

It is really cool to put yourself out there and just have FUN. That is what newbies need to do more often. Get out of their comfort zones and GAL more frequently. Meeting new and fun people along the way.

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Hi Wonka,

It was a big leap out of my comfort zone on both counts! Lol

how do you get the emotcons to work? If I do it from my key board 😃. It looks normal but once appears online it does some weird number code instead. Also what does the flame mean? Just curious lol


Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





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I love to hear this. I am working on GAL. I have been to dinner alone twice but have not been able to connect or re-connect with anyone.


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M 14; T 18
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