My mind and heart are always open! My thoughts and prayers are always with everyone!
Good luck to us all!!!
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
I have been in a relationship for about two years. Me and my beau live in separate households, and don't get to spend that much time together alone. He has two kids as well as do I. So me and my Beau are planning a nice week long getaway
Oh, this explains so much. Let me guess:
- Ex is burned up that you didn't sit around pining waiting for him to decide you were an acceptable Plan B - Ex didn't want you but he SURE doesn't want somebody else to have you! - Now that ex's relationship with OW is over, he's painting it to the boys that you two would be reconciled if only it weren't for your new man - The boys (even if they like new man) see him as an obstacle to their parents being reunited - The boys see ex as the "available" parent now that he's broken up with OW
All so very predictable.
I'm glad you have someone new in your life to help you through this time. You deserve it!!!
- Ex is burned up that you didn't sit around pining waiting for him to decide you were an acceptable Plan B - Ex didn't want you but he SURE doesn't want somebody else to have you!
KML- I beleive these two reasons alone.
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- The boys (even if they like new man) see him as an obstacle to their parents being reunited
Maybe even this one too as there have been back and forth comments about new man. They like him, can talk with him, treat each other with respect, but somehow I hear jabs from time to time that are negative about him.
The others may or may not be true, but is no cause of concern for me. And might I add one that I thought of... " I didn't fall flat on my face when he left"
All is very predictable, I am just sad that our kids are being used and abused.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life
And might I add one that I thought of... " I didn't fall flat on my face when he left"
Hahaha - right? I think my ex is still completely confused about the fact that when he left, I learned to play the drums and now play in a pop-punk band. After all, HE was the musician in the family (he can play a half-dozen Neil Young songs on the acoustic guitar, that he learned in college, but has never bothered to take any lessons or practice to enhance his skills.)
That, and my tall handsome boyfriend (a half foot taller than my ex, a couple of years younger, even more fit and way more handsome) - well, let's just say my ex is confused.
Bwwwwaaahhaaaaa, sounds like my bf. Younger than xh2, taller, looks far younger than xh2 and better looking. Soft caring soul gentle like xh2 thinks he is.
The joke is on them, no one wants to be plan b, ever. So shame on you all for NOT putting up with it.
Gooooooooooooooooo girls
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
