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I believe it was his W who came home from the casino that time of morning.


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My state does not have 50 50 but I have a good lawyer.

Past two nights i went out and didn't come home till after two like she always does ...this evening before she was going out she says I noticed you came home after 2 past two nights, where were you? I told her ...should I have or should i have just said i dont ask you where you go so don't ask me?


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If you don't know which answer to give her by now, you haven't progressed very much.


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You are trying to GAL and be mysterious. You should not be telling her what you have been doing. You should just say that you've been out and leave it at that. Make her wonder.

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I'd leave her wondering, you want to be mysterious smile


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Sandi, I figured I shouldn't be telling her but so used to when we would ask each other where we went that we would tell each other ...feels odd saying none of your business so to speak.


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