I dont see what you did as vindictive... You are living your new life. Out with the old...right?
Originally Posted By: unbidden
I agree with Mimi. Vindictive would've been putting her stuff in the garage and locking her out of the rest of the house just for the sport of it.
Thanks for stopping by, this is post 100 so I'll start a new thread. Although I don't have much going on these days on the divorce front. I am just living the way I should have been from bombdrop, DB'ing is really more about rediscovering yourself than winning back your spouse. Winning back your spouse is sometimes just a byproduct of DB'ing.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
DB'ing is really more about rediscovering yourself than winning back your spouse. Winning back your spouse is sometimes just a byproduct of DB'ing.
By George I think Youve got it!
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
