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#2419417 01/01/14 05:50 AM
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Happy New Year everyone. I hope that we all will have a new year and new beginning for 2014. My goal this year is to be happier and to be the best mom to my two boys. Thank you to everyone that has been here for me.


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Great goal for the year . . . I hope that 2014 is good to all of us, in whatever form that takes. smile


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Happy new year Kelela!


me: 30 H:30
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5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
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Happy New Year K smile
Hope you're staying warm.

Take care,

Love,

Jaye


Me 46 H 56
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S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
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Hi ya mizjjd, my boys and I had stayed over MIL's the last couple of days cause The boys didn't have school and I didn't want to have them in The house by themselves especially with the very cold temperatures we had in the last couple of days when it was below zero degrees. They are with their dad tonight and tomorrow night. So I'm home alone and I really hate I when they are not here with me. I dont like to be home by myself but I have no choice I mean its nice to have the house to myself but its so lonely.


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H moved out: 8/2013
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Lonely and cold are a difficult combination, aren't they, k? Hope you found something to do! smile


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Yes it is milehigh; and yes I did find something to do I did the laundry and had a fast and furious marathon I watched all 6 videos I just love watch this series. When I got to the last one it was so sad knowing that that was the last movie that Paul Walker will be in for fast and furious. This series will not be the same with out him. Don't get me wrong all The cast members are the best but it won't be the same. And tonight I'm sitting here watching Thor; in a way its so nice watching what I want for a change when my boys are at home all we ever watch is cartoon after cartoons. I think this year I'm going to be a mean mom and tell them its time to change The channel its so boring watching The same cartoons every night.


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Ha ha. Yes. Mom gets to choose sometimes. Only fair! Glad you got to watch something fun and meaningful for you.


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I had a good day today I did a really good cleaning of the kitchen and the living room. I throw away a lot of things I don't need and things I don't use anymore. I now have a lot of room every where. My next project will be the guest room since H hasn't come and gotten his things out if that room I'm going to go through all of his things and if I don't think its important to keep I'm pitching everything out. I had told him many times about his things and it seems that he doesn't want any of it oh well. I'm going to turn that room into a play room for my boys.


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H:37
M:14yrs
S:13; S:9
Found out PA:8/2012
2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013
H asked for D:6/2013
H moved out: 8/2013
H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
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I love a good cleaning/decluttering story! smile

It's funny how clearing out physical space clears out emotional space, too.

A playroom sounds like a great project.


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