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#2416533 12/20/13 07:37 PM
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I was married 17 yrs. divorced 2 years.
2 Teenage boys ( live with me). My wife left me for a boy half her age.
Just starting to speak again... Had coffee, we cried, held hands and hugged briefly.
She's coming over for dinner tonight.... Said she doesn't know if she can reconcile, she is "processing" everything.
We are also in the middle of an expensive custody battle that she will eventually lose...Worried about being used and manipulated.
God, I still love her though


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M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

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In Michele Weiner-Davis' book the Divorce Remedy, she discusses the WalkAway-Wife Syndrome. Your wife may have discovered that divorce was not the answer, too late. But now, if she is open to reconcilliation and you say you still love her, I urge you to seek the help of a Divorce Busting Coach. Please call me to discuss our coaching program 303-444-7004.


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She's said that so much has happened... that she doesn't know if she could reconcile .... Although she has agreed to see a therapist with the whole family to discuss our family relationship - not our marital relationship ( our 2 Boys are angry and resentful that she left and turned our lives upside down.
I've already spent more money than I want to think about on the D, legal fees and eventual buyout of home.... Spending more $ right now wouldn't be wise, especially since she said reconciling is prob not possible right now


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M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

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Until she says she wants to WORK on the marriage, then nothing has really changed for what you need to do for you and your boys.

I hope you find happiness, whatever that means for YOU.


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