meeting after 3 week no contact

[GummyBear]

Im lbs - 12 yrs

We are in a 3 week no contact period

1-contact.... if i understand i wait until she initiates and wants to talk

2-i have made my feelings very clear - she's "thinking"

How do i manage and navigate the first real talk since her move out?

3- i believe counselling and forgiveness can repair our life - how do i bring this up

4-how do i get her to open up and talk about her missing needs

Thx

(Book in the mail)

Any advice?

[Cadet]

Welcome to the board

Get out and GAL.

DETACH.

Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.
Have NO EXPECTATIONS.
Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.

You are on moderation right now on the forum.
SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.

Your W is giving you a GIFT.
THE GIFT OF TIME.

USE it wisely.

Knowledge is Power - Francis Bacon

Keep Posting but have patience for your posts to show up

[Cadet]

Stick to one thead

Howdy

Wife is mlc was

Loving what im learning here.

We have a family wedding coming up
1- where do i sit
2-dance?
3-9drive together?
4-what to say when relatives talk to me

Book on order

1-In a chair
2-Sure - but maybe not with her.
3-What do you want to do? If it were me, I would want my own car there so I didnt get left behind again.
4-Try not to involve as many people as possible

[Cadet]

Im lbs - 12 yrs

We are in a 3 week no contact period

1-contact.... if i understand i wait until she initiates and wants to talk

2-i have made my feelings very clear - she's "thinking"

How do i manage and navigate the first real talk since her move out?

3- i believe counselling and forgiveness can repair our life - how do i bring this up

4-how do i get her to open up and talk about her missing needs

Thx

(Book in the mail)

Any advice?

1 - good idea - let her contol the contact
2 - OK
3 - I wouldn't
4 - Actions speak louder than Words. Speak to her through actions. Stop trying to FIX this, you are not going to talk your way out of this.

[oldtimer]

Give W more space than she wants. Engage in zero ZERO zero R talk.

Dance with other people, have fun, leave W alone.

[GummyBear]

thank you...

the wedding isn't for a month... supposed to have zero personal info contact for 2 more weeks...

it's now making sense.

[oldtimer]

Your post is too elliptical for me to understand.

Stick to no contact/no R talk. Not -- "hold out for no contact/no R talk for 2 weeks and then start contact/R talk"

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