Ok thanks, wish I had saved it in a separate document to be able to go back and copy/paste but wasn't that smart! If a moderator was able to find it I'd be so grateful, but I'll start working on a new topic for my situation.
When I click on 'my stuff', then 'view profile', it says: Member #: 31824 Title: New Member Total Posts: 1 Registered on: 11/25/12 06:35 PM
Originally Posted By: dbmod on 2/28/2013
I apologize for the delay. Our goal is 24 hour turnaround but thine are times when we cannot achieve that.
As a “vet” here, I can say that I find this to be very upsetting. I have said many times that while I understand the reasons for moderation, if I was a newbie, I would be busy looking for other means of help after a day or two.
I can understand a 24 hour turnaround time but this is November until March. Which is a little bit more than 24 hours.
And if we are honest, the turnaround has been longer than 24 hours for several months now. I do understand that circumstances behind that…
I did check LoveU2 posting history. She has 7 posts, only 6 show, and no topics created so there is a “lost” post somewhere in cyberspace. Regardless, I think it may be time for something to change, because this obviously is NOT working.
I am not suggesting stopping moderation…more help maybe?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
This has nothing to do with moderation turn around. Just because a post doesn't show doesn't mean it hasn't been reviewed, although I do not know the circumstances here.
You are right, even though the goal for turning around moderation is 24 hours, often we do not make that goal.
Please email Virginia@divorcebusting.com with your suggestions.
Sorry to be impatient. I am in the middle of reading DR, & I have a thread which was starting to get me in a good place, but now I seem to be stuck with my posts which are not showing since the 21st. How many posts do I need to be allowed to be off Moderation? I think I am up to 31 now.
Not at all having a dig here, I understand I have to be patient, and there is a reason for being on moderation. But I am feeling like I need interact with people on here, and seem to be loosing momentum with my conversations. Many Thanks.
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