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I am a 59 year old female married to a 64 year old male. At my husband's choice, we have had a sexless marriage for over 30 years (defined as 10X or less per year). The marriage has had no sex whatsoever for 5 1/2 years. I used to want to revive this, but I no longer do. I am growing to hate him and I am thinking of leaving. Yes, I read the Sex Starved Wife and tried some of the techniques. I am tired of this!

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I don't know why they do this.

I had a previous R with a man 10 yrs older than me. He claimed to not like sex (and had ED) but I later found out he had a quite active internet porn habit.


Me: 44
H: 48
M: 4 yrs
My EA: 2010 & 2012
Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11
H left 1st time: 10/28/11
Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11
H left 2nd time: 12/23/12
Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8
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"I had a previous R with a man 10 yrs older than me. He claimed to not like sex (and had ED) but I later found out he had a quite active internet porn habit.


Then you don't understand porn addiction. It has nothing to do with whether or not you can 'get it up'. It's about fulfilling a fantasy. It's more mental than physical.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER

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