About the self-help books, I used to sleep with 3 or 4 in the bed beside me (H's side, of course). On those many sleepless nights I would wake up and start to read from one or the other.
I amassed quite a collection and soon they were moved to the nightstand on that side of the bed. Just a month or so ago, I sorted through and got rid of those I no longer wanted, so now I'm down to just a few.
They were useful at the time and I'm so glad to be on this side of the experience.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
thank you dear friends, i am alive and very well. i needed some time off the boards to work on remembering how to live life. D is still not final as I am dealing with a petulant narcissist who has a fairly incompetent L. i've been taking some time to reflect and let things unfold and i'm still working on my next steps. hope you are all well and wishing you the best in the coming new year
This made my day... to see you post again Ms. Fierce!! I have missed you and often wonder about you and how you are doing. I am so so happy to hear that you are doing very well and that you have been working on living your life!!!!!!!!!!! Hope that you will consider joining us on the alt. Wishing you a wonderful new year as well!
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
Wishing you a wonderful new year too Vera. Hope to see more of you too. Really missed you xxx
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
