I don't understand how someone can lie straight to my face like that and be convincing.
I am such an idiot.
So not true! You love the guy. Based on all the information and interaction you had, you made the right choices. Now things are changing. Keep going and keep doing things for you. Its going to be alright - but you already know this..
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
I'm so sorry . . . I was afraid of this. Try not to make ANY decisions (and CERTAINLY no ultimatums, one way or another!) this weekend. It's going to be difficult, but do you think you can fake it until you've had a chance to do some decision-making?
Try to hang in there. It sounds stupid, but MAKE SURE YOU EAT (you won't want to). Breathe. Go out with a friend. And, if you're so inclined . . . PRAY.
Peace and hugs to you. I have nothing more in the way of advice to offer than anyone just gave you. I will suggest that you do as everyone said and pull yourself through this weekend. Give yourself time to absorb the shock and think before you act.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
It has been a loooooooooooooooog time since I visited this board. But someone said I should come here and look ya up.
If I still have a thread here I was/ am Dr. Love... You are NOT an Idiot. Trust is hard to come by. I don't know your whole sitch, was there an Affair? "I don't know if he has done anything just yet but some very ugly information was just dropped in my lap. He is trying to start something up with someone, and I saw the written proof."
Are you sure of this information?
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know