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I know these are a year old, but the wisdom still applies. A lot of you "Newcomers" were not hear last year, so I'm posting the link again.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/divo...busters-edition

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Thank you for posting these. They are brilliant. I am printing now and posting on my fridge.

#1 & #2 were my favorite.

1. Envision positive outcomes

There is no way that you can begin to accomplish positive change your marriage if you don't believe it is possible. Start by imagining what your life will be like when your marriage truly turns a corner. The more you can picture every detail, the easier it will be to eventually step into this picture at some later date.

2. Act as if you expect miracles to occur
Once you can imagine positive outcomes, reflect on how you will be behaving differently when they happen. Then start doing that right now!


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